Sunday, 25 April 2021

Freedom Demonstration 2021

Wholeness and Good Vibrations.
Imagine your highest manifestation.
The time has come to unite as one through this demonstration.
Humanity interconnected, the real purpose for globalisation.
We are all here across many nations.
ENGAGE AND ACTIVATE your imagination.
It's time to throw out normal and create our own realizations.

Don't listen to the sound of control based brainwashed people's fear.
We are not here to be insincere.
But to activate your mind with cheer.
For this is the year!
The year to end all lies and fears.

Resist normal and dream big.
We don't consent because we know this system is rigged. 
We have love, each other, and enterprise.
We have the power to peacefully stand up against them, to their surprise.
The people built this system and we can do it again now we have realised.
Its time to execute our right to peacefully protest against their limits on our lives.

Inside us all is the power to build castles from the sands of their crumbled tyranny.
If we simply say NO MORE to these abnormal rules playing only the elites version of normality.
We will make our own rules! Based on values of trust, trade and community.
Set away from their system of elitist immunity.
We will hold them accountable for the harm they have caused humanity.
 And turn our backs on their system of subtle abuse and uncertainty.
We will Exit. Build. Set up Meaningful integrated communities. 
For we the people are the beauty of humanity.

Remember the days where we all worked together?
Grew food in commnual places, integrated our lives in shared spaces, accepted our differences with humble airs and graces, mingled across garden fences and took each other places?
When we all lived by Natural Law and had huge smiles across our faces?

We can have this again if we RISE UP and say;
YES to being free.
YES to humanity.
YES to personal responsibility
YES to owning a sense of integrity.

They cannot touch our right to bodily autonomy.
They shall not take away our right to feed our family.
They will never take away the Devine rights that belong to thee. 
We will not let them take our inalienable rights from me!
We are all sovereign, even you and me.
We are all in this together, undivided, collectively.
For we, The People, are the beauty of humanity.

We do not want to fight.
But what you are subjecting us to is not right.
We have read the reports and heard the evidence you try to censor out of sight.
Your deception ends tonight!
As we the people step into the light.
We know our rights.
Hand on our hearts, we look inside, activate our foresight.
Breathe in with all our might. 
Breath out and smile as we all freely recite:

NO to New Normal. 
We will not let you Keep us that small. 
We choose something better than normal, something truly phenomenal. 
Dream big, speak up, communicate with your people, build beautiful mind cathedrals with abundance at the top of your steeple.
Choose agora, permaculture, sustain your own resources, learn low impact living and how to protect our water courses. Let's take back the air that we breathe and how we teach our children, swap lazy convenience commercial monopoly for a more ethical solution . Support local businesses, bring back trade and barter, protect our family values, make sure the elderly are looked after. Live by Natural Law where our ways will do no harm to how we Thrive. It's not enough to live to just barely survive.

We deserve wholeness and Good Vibrations.
Bringing into life from WE THE PEOPLES imaginations.
Do not let inaction be the weapon of human rights destruction.
Come together to peacefully win this fight against the systems condemnation.
Unite! As free human beings in activation.
We know our rights!
We are free, is our manifestation.
We are free.
We are free.
We are free.

Wednesday, 27 January 2021

Activate for a Greater Reset

As events on 3D Earth continue to accelerate their bizarre cascade toward being completely upside down and as more and more propoganda paralyses the good citizens of the UK into inaction, here at MJK HQ we have decided to share intellectual alternative news, research and media offerings that can help make sense of the nonsense. 

The dangerous tensions that are building are not just between Right and Left. That’s a convenient distraction, aimed at the simplicity of divide and conquer.  For while we still continue to fight about skin colour, religion, gender and politics, we are missing the bigger picture. 

This is a fight for control of the planet and our consent as free, empowered  beautiful beings to become enslaved to a tyrannical system. This is between the collectivist, deep-state globalists and those of us who want to exorcise our right to live free of coercion. 

These realizations (or awakening) shake us out from our micro view personal expereinces, of our echo chambers and perhaps our comfort zones, to analyse if our belief system and understanding of the society we live in is realistic or fantastical. We move from our personal perspective to ponder the macro view, the external big picture, where the insane and scary details of this government tyranny actually fits in a coherent, though ugly, pattern. 

As disheartening as it can be, as hard as these discussions are at times, with open hearts we can learn and innerstand there is light at the end of the rabbit hole. People everywhere are waking up and joining together to take action.

The time is now to get organised, to collectively take peaceful action and to resist being coerced into giving away our rights.
All of the sharing of joint and independent content is coming from our heart centre and focused from love. 
Demonstrating our commitment to protecting freedom of speech and the sharing of uncensored information. We all have the right to be able to make informed choices to protect our livlihoods, our right to travel and our body autonomy, as are our inalienable rights.
Its time to build a new way of life, in alignment with the values of how we really want to thrive.
If you need to understand the fraud and tyranny of what is going on, if you are still awakening to the raw and uncomfortable truth of how despicable this scamdemic is, then watch this hours summary.  'The New Normal'  is collated and researched by a collective of reputable and independent journalists. It's This documentary investigates The Fourth Industrial Revolution/AI. .

There are distressing scenes of police brutality and infringement of people's rights to be constitutionally protected from harm in this film. These scenes may be painful to watch. We were deeply moved by them yet it called us to action. Please watch in a safe space.

However this film offers an important description of what’s really at stake and how we can recognize the very risky realm where convenience and control intersect.

Once you've got your head around that, you probably want a lovely cup of tea, a breather and a little sit down. Once you've gathered your thoughts and want to move in towards solutions...consider this....

Do not despair!

Hope is a hand shake away. 
There is more fertility, abundance and excitement in the world than you will see on mainstream media. 

We will be continuing to post the truth here and signpost you to good news, proactive action and friends and allies who want to stand up for their rights to live as a free human being.

Join! The RESIST MOVEMENT. Be brave. 
Be among good people. 
Be free.
The whole world is being called to action. The time is now! It's in no way just us, or just a small group of people. There is action on a global scale! There is global resistance! 

Good news is out there if you look in the right places (away from Google browser control and YouTube anti free speech terms of use) 

For example...
50,000 professors, lawyers, medics, scientists have all joined to create the World Freedom Alliance. Educating GPs, politicians & the public on an international basis of the real data & dangers of this scamdemic.

This week - Over 50,000 businesses in Italy have created the campaign 'I am open' going against lock down in an act of collective peaceful civil disobedience to retain thier income & societal structures. They are supported by an Italian MP who said "open up, don't worry, in the end we will make them eat their fines." This follows Mexico doing the same succesfully, on Jan 12th and variants across Poland, and a part of Switzerland.

People are coming together and getting organised.


Here is the first of the films we wish to share with a solutions focus. Its by James Corbett (award winning journalist). He discusses 2 main programmes you can join MJK in being part of:
1) The Freedom Cells network. A resource for connecting you to like minded people who want to get organised & create a new way of living. 

2) An event being streamed THIS week which has a plethora of very interesting talks on how we can create a new way of living that's ethical, private & retains our human rights.
Most of the talks will be reshared after the event too.

The Greater Reset believes...

So do we. 

More great news will follow in subsequent posts.

Thanks to for content I've adapted and shared in part, in this blog. 

Sunday, 10 January 2021

The Truth WONT kill you (but it might save your life)

I have spent a lot of time pondering how to reach out to my loved ones and pass on information that i believe is being hidden from those in the UK.

Yes. It's about Covid.
Yes. It's about the vaccine.
Please, before you stop reading, engage your critical amazing powerful brain and hold the connection you and I have in your heart , and please read on

Give me a little of your time.

Or skip my words and simply press play on the short film link. I implore you. You have a human right to be properly informed before you make decisions about injecting anything into your body.

I have spent months seeking out numerous sources of info and validating their sources, their funders and efficacy and cross referencing until a correlation of truth can be found.

I'm not alone. More academic, more intelligent, more established viewer based people than I, also do this. And I'm lucky enough that I am connected to those with more integrity and gravitus than I, who share their findings. Actual experts. 

I am a realist. 
A syncronist.
A free sovereign being.
I listen to those who know better.

I care about you and the other beings on this Earth. 
I've spent so much time in the past week coming to a fearful place for those I love. I had to write this blog to you all.

I am scared I will lose people. Those who will take the vaccine because they believe in the propaganda spilling out of the black square hypnotist in the corner of every front room.

Yet I am compelled to beg you all to consider the professional integrity of everyone in this short film. And the testiments they make in an effort to bring you the right information about the vaccine, so you can make an informed choice about your own health. I beg you. For every moment I have been unable to spend time with you lately, for every gathering I may have missed, for every phone or video call I've missed coz of crap signal, please swap that time for this film. Even if you watch it for me, it's just 30 minutes of your day. They are the experts, after all.
Thank you. I love you.

Made by international doctors and medical and other  professionals who want YOU to know that the vaccine is not safe, not ethical and WILL HARM YOU. 

Don't take it from me. Please listen to them. 

The UK News is brainwashing you.
For instance...
Are you aware of the Great Barrington Declaration signed by over 50,000 medical & public health scientists and medical practitioners?

No? Ask why....

Do you know that thousands of associations of concerned doctors, nurses are standing out and sharing their truths such as the World Doctors Alliance with over 55,000 signees who are being hounded or worse, sacked, for speaking their MEDICAL TRUTH.

No? Ask why...

Do you know that The Gates Foundation fund the health department of the BBC News?

No? Ask why...

Are you aware that the WHO (work height org) has been infiltrated by numerous convicted criminals for crimes against humanity (look it up!) Who sit in high positions such as CEO...Chief medical advisor? All paid by...The Gates Foundation.

No? Ask why...

Please. You may be locked indoors. But don't lock your beautiful inquisitive mind!

Activate your critical mind to this situation.
Engage your heart.

It's not too late to change your mind. Demand more research if you are pro-vaccine. Look at the animal testing results.

And consider...

If it's so safe and effective; why has all medical liability been waivered and any matter of recourse been prevented?


The video you juat watched has been banned by mainstream social media channels!

Ask yourself why when these people are MORE QUALIFIED AND EXPERIENCED than our leaders, the politicians, the corporate companies creating data analysis and the news chiefs.

The truth is being withheld from you UK! 

The UK is the first country testing the vaccine across it's population. Initiating complete control of the media to scare you into thinking this PLANDEMIC is real and that you need a vaccine.

But you don't. Vitamin D. Simple.

And if you are still asking but what about all the deaths? 

No higher than this time of year EXCEPT all infection, respiratory and seasonal illnesses have been reclassified as... Covid19.

So it's all data manipulation to scare you into submission. 

The really horrendous thing is...

The vaccine could kill you. 
Give you an auto immune disease.
Make you infertile.
Change your DNA.
Make you immune deficient.

So please. Consider this information. Protect your health. Stay away from this dangerous injection. 
I will be. And I will advising everyone I love to do the same.

I can't live in fear any more. 
I have passed on as much as I can right now. Between tears. Between cuddles. Between furious finger stabbing my screen.

I hope we all make it through this.
Thanks for reading and watching.
I love you. 

Wednesday, 6 January 2021

Yeah! What tea says.

I am a big fan of the Yogi Tea Brand.

Not only does it come in so many delicious flavours, some blends specifically help with issues such as sleepiness, immune system boost, relaxation and revitalization.

They certainly have helped me with all above at times.

This is not an advert. I'm just mad about Yogi tea! It freaking speaks to me. I swear!

Plus it's the best tea for flavour & I haven't found anything that matches it across those flavours.

The product is organic and you can usually get two cups from one bag. 

Check out their website and find yourself a local supplier!
Yogi Tea Home Page

What I love so much about Yogi Tea is every single bag comes with an individual message on a cute little red label. We keep them all in a jar and sometimes when the moment is required we use the jar like a lucky dip, like a tarot card or fotune reading if you will. Its a nice way to get a perk of inspiration for the day.

Recently i have felt like each tag on the bag speaks to me through some divine intervention...

A few weeks back I woke at 3am and as I decided NOT to open my laptop and do some work, I glanced at my previously sipped bedtime tea bag which said 'Love your soul'. 

I pondered the instruction & then agreed. 
So I went back to bed and with this thought in mind (and after finishing a £100 winning crossword puzzle) I drifted off into a beautiful replenishing sleep.

It also inspired me to keep my blog readers updated on how the tea speaks to me. Thats is, If i have any readers left after such a long gap in my postings!

I confess I've been writing for another blog space I'm developing with my partner for our travel and campervan adventures.

See what's been posted here (now THATS a shameless plug ha ha ha) 

Anyways back to beautiful tea.
The messages on Yogi tea are so beautiful. So simple. So true.

After keeping hundreds and using them for plunge moments of inspiration we wondered what we do with them as we moved abroad to Portugal.

It seemed ridiculous to pack them when space, function, necessity & basic needs were high on the list of essentials.

Until the day we made our majical travel jar of talismans & trinkets to keep us safe & invisible as we departed the UK & drove thru Spain to Portugal.

We added the beautiful Yogi tea messages into our jar & sprinkled them with majic. Imbibing their majic messages of conscious love and understanding into our protection and travel magic for a efficient and effective journey.

And that's exactly what we got.
And now we have our beautiful jar in our temporary caravan home. Continuing to emanate good vibes and keeping us protected and spiralling towards ever more madjakall experiences.

Or so the tea told us so.

Friday, 2 August 2019


Play this while reading…

We all have those songs that we like yet we hear the lyrics wrong…
and we spend a while (or a lifetime) singing the wrong lyrics to ourselves. Even when the correct lyric is either patronisingly or smugly told to us. No matter how much we know what the lyrics are, we cant stop hearing it the other way. Often we don’t want to! 

We all have those experiences. Yet some mis-interpretations have to go down in history. 
Categorised as either hilarious, ridiculous, or brilliant. This is epic.
Epic creates a whole new world of meaning.

And I have one. Its going to be the new way to describe something bloody fantasic. Great. Superb. Right up there. Its gonna be big, you’ll love it.

Remember that song by Tori Amos? Nah me neither…im constantly looking up who it is, regardless of how long ive been experiencing this adventure. And constantly referring to it as Alanis  Morrisset! Which I am sure has now caused offence to many in many ways. Hahaha

It wasn’t that big a hit in my world when it came out. Until Armand's Star Trunk Funkin' made an awesome remix of it in 1996. This went on to be further mixed up into some brilliant DJ nights out in the south east of England. We all became part of that fabulous new sound.

The lyrics, as best as I could discern from this banger of the 1990’s, were odd but catchy as hell with the repeat funky melody rhythm and groovy bass.

“I’m gonna bring you close to my…, I’m gonna bring you close to my lips yeah.”

“I’m gonna bring you close to my…, I’m gonna bring you close to my lips yeah. Scabby cake. Scabby cake.”

And on with the funky beat. Strange lyrics. That was about the only lyric. Apart from some lilting softer lyrics fading in and out during a interlude to crescendo moment of the track.

I often wondered…why? Why would you want the scabby cake close to your lips? Isn’t that gross and well…scabby? But still I danced on. Singing to my hearts content about scabby cake. Coz I liked the tune. We all did. We all danced. Smiled. Had a big ole time. Fond memories.

Eventually in the face of many correctionists and shortly after the internet was born and I began being that old, it was pointed out to me and confirmed that the lyrics were in fact ‘its got to be big.’

So now, that’s what scabby cake means to me, its got to be big (great).

#scabbycake #sorryamos #itsalwaysbig

Wednesday, 27 March 2019

Unplug from online to have a good time

I feel obliged to write something about why I haven’t been writing anything.

Dont worry, I hear the irony.
Which is one of the reasons I have been wrestling with this blog for so long. Yet my reasons for breaking my own silence now, are based on strong and evolving values I have for human interaction, sharing information and genuine communication.

I am writing it down, for those of you who don’t communicate with me in person. For those people I class as RL friends and loved ones who keep extra tabs on my adventures through social media and maybe need a nudge to update their conscious understanding of the meaning of true interaction. But yet I also write for those ‘friends’, acquaintances and associates that through the vortex of social media, have the opportunity to read what is posted about my life and judge me. Or most commonly misjudge me.

Anyway. Your opinion is not fact.
Your perception is not reality.
It is your experience.
It is different to everyone else’s.
That’s why it’s important to be open minded and discuss our experiences in a way that enables us to share view points and accept others.

So this blog is exactly sharing information so that you are informed and can go on to make your own decisions, build an educated opinion.

People form their opinions based on the meaning they impose onto their experiences and from information they glean from sources good or bad. This can be related to as your consciousness. Receiving information is part of your consciousness learning and evolving.  Sharing information outside of your comfort zone, keeps you from becoming stuck in a familiar pattern of the same old experience.

Yet, it shouldn’t matter what we know, its how we share our experiences (or share what we think we know) and how we interact with others while doing so, that really matters. We can hold the most opposite of values and beliefs, yet if we communicate them with love and respect, a shared understanding will harness an interesting and rich experience.

Some people voice their opinions based on their own narrow view of experiences. Stanbding from a singular viewpoint. Others give little consideration to communication, and for many communication does not involve actually being in the room where you can genuinely immerse themselves in the forms of verbal and non-verbal interaction. They live predominantly in the online safety of their feedback loop. 

So it is here, in this online domain, I must traverse for a moment or two. To put my truth out there.

I have been contemplating a choice about the way I communicate online. Do I engage with the current trend of instant response gratification or not? Do I unplug completely from social media or find some in between balance? And do I actually want to read status updates of sensationalised opinions and ill considered commentary on other peoples lives? Can I just disconnect from the machine and enjoy the connections and interactions that happen in RL? (real life)

So! We all know social media creates an experience of disconnect. Or you should do. If you don’t...look it up! Check out anything from the links I have at the end of this blog, or watch anything by Jaron Lanier, if you wanna get a quick understanding...

The internet is being used to further manipulate our experiences. Jaron calls social media ‘Behaviour Modification Empires’ and to be honest, I agree with him.

The more I research and the more I help people in my line of work as a counsellor, the more I see evidence of a dependence on social media validation which in turn breeds fear of rejection in the real world. And yet the internet was set up to provide free public information and a means of communication. But now we are communicating through web sites and applications that target our dopamine and market at us in a way that affects our decision making. “If two people wish to communicate, it should not be dependent on a third party who wishes to manipulate them.” So I’m growing concerned.

Concern for society's acceptance of being plugged in.
Concern for the mind set of group mentality validation.
Concern of the demise of consideration to an individual’s back story.
Concern for the subtle reduction of our Human Rights.
Concern that my privacy is already violated and I am not safe online.
Concern that the conspiracy some people see here, is being ignored by many because the internet makes everything seem so ‘convenient.’

But please, don’t just believe me, do your own research. Run your own experiments.

Because if you don’t. If you are sitting quite comfortably in your echo chamber of likes and familiar threads, your dopamine drained by a blatant algorithm designed to keep you plugged in and suggestible to mass opinion and marketing techniques, you are being reduced and controlled my friend.

Break free from the chamber and unplug!

If you really want to understand this. And how much we are being controlled, then check out this film. It is long (2 hours), its well cheesy in places (why oh why are they floating around in a virtual space ship hahahaha) AND its depressing and scary as fuck. But it’s ALL FACT. 

I recommend you sit down and watch it in half hour slots. Use a notepad and make a note every time you disbelieve something or feel strong emotions. Make a note. Every time. And go take those points you noted and do your own research. It will all bring you back to the same point. I’d love to know what you think about this situation we are experiencing. Get back to me with your views...

Social media is a tool for communication. But how valuable and genuine?

Communication has always been important to me. Whether it’s been the hilarious uplifting postcards I received weekly from my Nanna, the long emails from my mum when she moved away from home, or the hours on the phone with my besties when I finally left home. I’ll use it all, if its means I can keep in contact and keep up to date with the festivities and factors influencing your life. The delight is in the detail after all.

Communication can be an adventurous journey of differences that takes you to a place of understanding and knowledge.  Yet with social media, insta chat apps and even text at our reactive finger tips, it seems that our ability to reflect, relate and communicate a considered response is becoming a lost talent.

The past 6 months I have gone through a lot of stuff and during that time I have cut off the regular use of social media. I have even turned my phone off completely for periods of time. Purposefully reducing the opportunity for uninvited contact. 

I have undertaken a few experiments of limited social media use. I have found that living in the real world, in real time and reflecting on my experiences and interactions, has brought me to acknowledge that my life without social media is pretty expanding. Eclectic. Fulfilling. Abundant. Mindful and absolutely present.

I do not miss the fakery of online socialising. The catastrophising. The minimising. The demonising. The making of martyrs. Especially do not miss the making of dinner.

And absolutely not the intrusion of cookie led advertising. Nor the circle of perpetual personal comfort and agreement the algorithms will have you believe.

This modern world we find ourselves interacting within, these rooms and networks, all of this social sharing, this online dis-inhibition and facebook fantasy, is bringing us the opposite experience of what is intended from communication and connection. And a decision began to form for me. TURN OFF SOCIAL MEDIA.

I wish to share just some of the information that informed the processing to this decision, in the hope that others will maybe do the same research, but mostly so that my true friends will know to get in touch using my phone number, if they really want to share adventures or ‘like’ what we can actually do together. In person.

One of my experiments with usage was to treat social media the same way we used to screen our incoming calls on the answer phone. I glanced at it by way of finding out what people in my life are doing. Once I get an update worthy of response, I log out and call them up. Or go visit. Simple. When you look at it this way, as a source of useful information. It becomes apparent that most of what you read, is not useful. Not at all.

I also carried out considerable research on online dis-inhibition and factors of communication online for my online counselling qualification and discovered the following:

Only 7% of the way we communicate is attributed to the written word. 7%. The WORDS.

When using written text, the intonation is applied through the correct use of grammar, punctuation and semantics based on the understanding of the reader and...guess what...the voice in their head.

Whaaaatttttt? Oh yeah. You better believe it.

Literally how they read it.
So quite often, their mood. How people feel when writing is not often forthcoming (why do you think Faceache have emojis to tell others what you are thinking / feeling / doing)? Because it adds context.

Take these examples:
1-OMG! My dad just came home with a dog...

Can you tell if the writer is happy about it? Shitting themselves? Excited? Nervous? Is the dog for them? Do they like dogs?

Try reading it angry. Read it as if you were cooing over a baby. Read it over excitedly. Read it bored.

Can you hear how the way you read it in your head, can imply different meaning by your intonation.

Well all written communication is this way. It is not how its written, its how you read it.

If you get a message from someone you have a formed opinion about, say...a nagging friend who always seems to party. You may read it in a sarcastic way (do it!) and find yourself offended.

2-What are you up to tonight? Bet you are having a quiet night in with a book...

And yet the opposite (and many other explanations too) could be true...perhaps they are envious of your cosy plans and are making an opening for an invite to join you.

Maybe they are trying to explore your plans for a surprise treat.

Maybe they want to tell someone some news and need a friend.

Or maybe they want to brag about an awesome night they have ahead. And need a friend.

The point being, you need more information, you have to consider various possibilities.....all of NOT good communication.

Most of the skills required for genuine connection and sharing of information is nonexistent in status updates and text box word counts. If only 7% of communication is effective using WORDS, then we
are barely communicating at all using social media.

And, as I mentioned earlier, it is influenced by factors which can change hourly (mood, concentration, patience, compassion) or by factors that are unique to you and ostensibly your relationship with the individual who has written the words you are reading.

So if we accept that intonation as intended is not audible, and that when we are reading, we apply the tone ourselves. And in that we reflect more in how we are feeling when we receive the information and certainly how we believe we are perceived by the sender, than how it is actually intended.

In short, what you take from information, infers more about you, than the person communicating the information in the first place.

A point well made by Kali Muro’s who wrote a paper a few years back called ‘Conflict in Cyberspace’ stating that the person will project their perception onto communication if it is not clear enough. Leaving it open to transference and interpretation. Probably the worse thing you can ask for when trying to reach out to others. Mis-communication. we not really care how we are perceived online because we are merely reflecting an image of our self to our self?

Which leads me nicely to my final research point. Who are you online? What version, tailored or exaggerated you is presented? And why?

Online personality disorder is now a thing. No, really.
People are developing an inability to merge
their online persona with who they are in RL. Experiencing heightened levels of dissatisfaction with their identity and disconnect from actual face to face experiences.

In some cases this presents as the ability to ‘be more me’ online. Because it has a safety barrier of non presence, which allows the individual to feed only parts of their personality,  or degrees of all parts but only online, often aspects that are the easiest to accept and with limited challenge to their whole self, congruence and indeed accountability.

Online communication offers people a screen they can literally and metaphorically hide behind.
In some it enables them to hide themselves and masquerade as an alternative version, ‘be another me’.

Seeking validation for singular aspects of their identity without reflecting on how this fits with them as a whole being. Creating a dissidence between their RL experiences against a comparison of their online personality.

All very fracturing in a society with increasing depression, anxiety and stress.

Your online persona should mirror who you are in real life. Not provide a protective boundary that enables you to be more outspoken, more riske, more brave, more ‘yourself’. The risk here is that you believe that this part of you is validated by experience and feedback. It is not. It is validated by likes, emoji’s and word count. All of which are manipulated to keep you in this docile state.

Once you realise that much of this feedback is purposely filtered and fed to you to keep you in a state of compliance, you lose hope in the system and crave a real conversation. Well I do anyway.

I find it fascinating how people respond to each other in a vacuum of consideration. As if, in real life, if you walked into a room with an interesting discussion going on you would ever just drop a five word statement in and then walk out the room and go home.

How is that either sociable or real?

Neither should you be saying things online in a way that you would not say if those on your friends list were actually in the room with you.

I see this a lot. People over exaggerating, catastrophising, victimising and martyring people for their own validation.  And sometimes it is a careless abandon to semantics, but it is thoughtless all the same.

And I like my communication with others to be considered and thoughtful.

I have always considered the internet to be a fantastic resource rather than a virtual reality.

I am from Generation X.

The technology generation who can recall 'finding our way' around the internet without guidelines or parameters and indeed having to navigate peer to peer and often child to parent learning around internet safety and security. Let alone the emerging issues of social conformity of an online community and perspectives of communication that impact our ability to connect meaningfully in person .

We are only just beginning to see the effects of a variety of internet related addictions, RL vs. VR behaviours and risk factors which require better understanding and guidelines. People should have access to supportive navigation to transfer from one to the other safely (RL vs. VR), in a way that empowers self growth and diversity without demonising either experiences.

However it seems clear to me that common decency and the need to relate to each other’s values is key and should not suddenly change when we move from room to room of a building, nor room to room online.

Suler also predicted in a paper around online behaviours that  'Just how this new interconnectivity, where geographic constraints are abolished, will influence individual and social behaviour is unclear, but we know it will.' 

Although the internet has brought a world of experiences to the end of our finger tips much of the influence of this exposure is as yet uncharted. Rather like RL, relating our daily experiences between virtual and real life interactions must be communicated respectfully and considered.

Taking time to do it right online.
Or consider the prospect that it could be more meaningful done in real time. 

As you would when in a building and walking into rooms full of people, you keep your wits about
you, stand tall, steady and strong and stick to your values and core beliefs. The same is said for surfing into a new reality on the world wide web. There may be a seemingly protective screen between you and that world, but it is still your values and integrity that drive the platform of your experiences. As you limited your time online, your RL can expand and your conscious experiences grow.

This has certainly been my experience. Like I said earlier, don’t take my word for it. Experiment yourself.

So after a range of experiments and an overwhelming benefit from less social media time I have decided to delete my social media accounts.

I wish my disengagement to be counted along with many others stepping out of the X generation of cyber control and flexing our muscles back in the land of magical connections, signs of nature, smoke signals and body language.

We can use other technologies.

I am standing up against the insipid few who run our countries and spy on our lives, so as to manipulate us further. I will use my fingers to turn off and turn away and of course, use my voice.

I am sharing this with you so you can source your own  information to others to pass on. We can communicate with kindness and embrace our differences. We can share our diversity with compassion towards each individuals uniqueness. We can act on our own beliefs. We can uphold our values for an expanding consciousness. Ultimately we can save planet earth. We can be better human beings.

So farewell to those of you reading this through facebook, you can probably still find the occasional hippy blog over here on Citizen Rain. And you can definitely find me at the end of my phone number. See you in a field somewhere, on a road somewhere or up a hill somewhere.

Real Life beacons and it is immense. VR I gratefully decline.

Rewind, be kind. Dont be a dick. And mostly, be the real you, all the time.
Suler, J.R. (2002). Identity Management in Cyberspace.
Kali Muro: Conflict in Cyberspace
Mousso, M.  & White, N.(2004). Avoiding Online Conflict.
Michael Fenichel: Technical Difficulties, Formulations and Processes

Wednesday, 20 June 2018

Absence makes the heart grow strong

Absence does make the heart grow strong. It makes mine grow more sure, more full, more absolute in my love for you.

Today as I missed you terribly, I felt huge engulfing sensations of utter impressive empowerment alongside a truth in my soul of our unity.

I know you will always let me be free. And I you.

I know you will always be with me no matter how far I go.

I know you will always support me no matter how much I change & grow.

I know you will always be with me. Are always with me. For we are in each other.

We know us. We are always us.

Being apart does not change the us, the companionship, the truth, the bond of us.

It just proves its strength. Its power. Its truth.

For being with you is the answer to all my quests. And the question?

Who is the one to love me like no other, like I am the best, to be each others favourite, to see in me something that allows me to be the version of myself that I like best.

Being with Ivor is my best. I do not jest. We are each others lifes quest.

Previously our hearts broken and put through many a test.

Now we are united, our heart & souls can heal, love the greatest and honourably rest.

I may be a wordsmith. But for you words are not enough.

They are not of enough strength, or profess enough power that describes our unique and awe inspiring connection.

All I am  left to acknowledge is this...

I have everything to give to only you. And I know you match me in everything back.

You are my one true love, my star travelling wanderer, my soul mate & twin flame.

YOU are the absolute end game.

All I see is you.

In everything I do.

You you you you you.

Ivor Gott the everything of Blou.

I love all of you.

I do.

Wouldn't change any of you.

Proud of you.

It will always be you.

I see everything anew & always in it, I see you.

I. Love. You.